[laughs] I think they both try to keep their personal life private, but Hailey makes that difficult by avoiding Jay and burying herself in a case that ends up bringing up a lot of her unresolved trauma.
The episode starts by Jay telling Hailey that he loves her and I don’t know if you guys know this buuuut Hailey isn’t great with feelings.
Jay can see her spiraling and tries to help, but Hailey is stubborn, scared, and she pushes him as far away as she can because that makes her feel safest.
We definitely see an obstacle in their relationship.