In her talk with Dangerous Minds, she actually puts the spotlight on others who desire an alternative relationship of some kind, and how her coming out, hopefully, makes other people feel more comfortable with the idea of non-traditional romances.
I have to give props to Amethyst Realm, here.
You would think that someone unused to being interviewed on a large scale would respond to a question about what telling their story to the public has meant with lots of revelations about how their life has changed, but Realm doesn’t do that.