You’re using its energy against it and creating something positive out of it.
I think it’s more about just laughing at myself, not laughing at other people, necessarily, that are involved in a project.
But laughing at myself and my own contribution to that failure or however you want to characterize it.
And in examining it, you take that energy that is – typically, maybe it’s hurtful or maybe it’s something that’s dragging you down – and you end up creating a sort of mental Judo with it.