If Jon’s secret identity being revealed merely results in a shrug from Snow, accompanied briefly thereafter by a “It’s all yours, Daenerys” from Jon, I will be even more disappointed.
Having set Sansa up to eventually waver on Daenerys, it would seem that Game of Thrones is priming fans for Jon Snow to do the exact same thing as his sister: let Daenerys have her way.
That is a beyond frustrating development to contemplate.