It was my understanding the decision to have the child in Ethiopia was Ariela’s idea, and while I’m not saying that’s a bad idea, it’s not like Biniyam was the one who forced the issue in her coming over for that.
The two then bashed Biniyam (who looked truly apologetic he couldn’t do better) for not having a timetable for improvements with the baby on the way.
The flip side of that would be Ariela Danielle and her mother visiting Biniyam Shibre in Ethiopia, and then being appalled that the apartments he found don’t have the modern accouterments of life in America.